Taking too lightly oneself as well as misjudging others is the downfall for many people.
This mentality is awful and horrendous when it comes to being a success or striving to be successful.
Having no confidence, negative self talk or lacking skills has never stopped the great people from accomplishing their dreams…it should be the same for you. When you UNDER estimate yourself, you have lost the battle. Dig deep and find a way…..ask people, do something you would normally not do you will find it really worth your while to try different things to change that mindset.
So why is it that many individuals come down with such an awful mindset? Well in such a way, it’s our cultures mistake in my point of view. We were instructed or taught that it was not nice to be better than any one else, to not be selfish or egotistical to the next person in preschool, or to play nice together. (sounds familiar) It all started out at a young age, but that was the culture of your grand parents that was passed down. We were educated that we should not outshine others and make them really feel bad. This has been rubbed upon all of us throughout our lives. It began in grade school, high school and then college…..I am not saying its a bad thing to be humble but where is the spark for creativity.
Nevertheless, all this is wrong. All this is nonsense when it involves attaining substantial success.
You have to be somewhat big-headed as well as self consumed in your very own possibility for success, you have to want to permit the light within you radiance. Now this may seem rather conceited however, but by doing this you subconsciously provide others the inspiration and motivation to do the exact same.
So this brings me to the objective of this blog post. You need to avoid underestimating your capabilities.
Avoid permitting others to walk through you, fight for what is yours. Stand tall and be pleased. View yourself as someone as a capable person because that is just what you are.
Too many individuals stopped before they also attempt something. Something in their mind makes them think that they are not worthy to do well due to the fact that another person is far more capable. (Which I think is a load of crap) We human beings tend to praise the success of others to much and for this reason see them as remarkable and also undervalue our very own successes. However in truth we must truly be doing the opposite, sure I look at their accomplishments, but I look at how I can make it better……because really if they can do it so can I, and that is my mentality for most.
Other individuals are not as great as you make them out to be. (its all in your mind) I have been in numerous situations where I too came down with this mentality and that
is what can make me an expert in so called situations. However as I started to do certain things different like read more, learned more because I challenged myself and then.
I noticed that those folks that I had put on a pedestal just weren’t as terrific as I as soon as believed. As a matter of fact they actually didn’t have just what it took to succeed. Yes, they had a listing of fancy accomplishments, money or even the luxurious items but when it boiled down to getting to work, all their so called greatness went out the window. I found out that some of them wasn’t even close to being where I was at, so it made me think
even more….that the only person you are competing against is your self.
You too have actually probably had similar encounters in life. For that reason it’s time to recognize that you should quit thinking that others are much better compared to you. Whether they are or they’re not is unimportant. However the concept of idea is what absolutely matters.
If you think you are superior compared to others, you will act out in a style that demonstrates this. Now I don’t suggest being arrogant to miraculous level as well as deceiving yourself. What I indicate is being positive. Being positive in yourself and also in your capabilities and most importantly not counting yourself out despite that you are dealt with up against.
So the next time you are set up against a person that on paper would appear to be a lot more superior compared to you, don’t surrender. Instead battle. You have it in you to succeed. Verify every person wrong. Quit giving others the right to destroy you. You can do very well so avoid underestimating yourself and also get out there as well as kill the competitors.
This is what it takes to be successful………and I know you have it in you to do so..